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Yes start over with them. Do you know how much influence a wonderful grandparent can have? You can save this and have that wonderful large family you always wanted NOW. Every one of your grandchildren is growing up in a chaotic home. Give them structure, give them tradition. Have all the holidays at your house and observer traditions. Keep the for a week each to the parents can get adult time. Observe their birthdays. don't you think that would be a whole lot easier and more worthwhile that having more , who you don't actually know how to raise yet? With your grandkids you can get away with more inconsistency while you learn because they won't you as often. You get your downtime. If you can offer them something stable they you for it, and they have a place to escape to and feel they are important. don't make them unimportant by ignoring them. My grandma totally saved me from a lousy father and an absent mother. She encouraged me and believed in me and was the most important person in my life, though I didn't realize just how much until she was gone. You can be that. 5 lives can be lifted by you. Your house can ring with laughter and every holiday, every at-grandpa's week. Open your eyes they are right in front of you, the already here, and the fifth one. Open your eyes and your family.